No Lions Anymore: Portraits of a Life
Chapter
One ~ Fading Away
When Shareen
died there weren't as many tubes. Even when his mother died finally,
after nearly a hundred years of telling the world how a corpse
is best interred, her bodily integrity was preserved. Is this
what death is then, several clear plastic tubes hooked to various
parts of his anatomy? His most profound struggle wasn't the
feeling that his own death was tearing down upon him like a runaway
truck on a hill, but rather trying to keep from hurting the feelings
of others.
Some of it
couldn't be helped. Kids who volunteered in the hospital because
they were hoping to be nurses or doctors would tear up when he
cried out in pain, and some of the nursing staff felt the absence
of guests more than him. He didn't want them to care. They only
needed to perform their job. The friends who should have been
at his side hadn't been informed. They were old themselves, and
didn't need yet another reminder of their mortality.
He tried to
grit his teeth through the delay in the morphine drip, and shove
down the tendency to be querulous and difficult, but more than
once he snapped at an aide, and then later had to apologize. Their
faces were as bland as weak tea. They'd seen it all before. But
they didn't seem to realize that it was all new for him. He didn't
plan for any of it, and when one tube after another was inserted,
each indignity hovered over him like a rotting tree too close
to the house.
The initial
doctor's visit had been innocent enough, some difficulty with
constipation that had plagued him on and off for at least ten
years. "If you'd come sooner," the doctor told him.
He said that
to the cabbie on the way home. "I should have gone sooner."
"And then
what?" the cabbie had asked. "So you get there sooner. Then they
diagnose, pump you full of chemicals."
He remembered
who he was speaking to and lapsed into silence.
"Fifteen years
ago I was fine." Shareen was alive. He wasn't alone. And reruns
on television weren't constant reminders of how many years lay
between him and his youth.
The cabbie
said nothing more and when it came time to pay he kept the tip
at ten percent. Any less was an insult and a comment, and any
more and he'd be betraying himself.
His house
felt as though someone had broken in and moved around the furniture
to suit themselves, as though he had a squatter who'd forgotten
to announce himself. As if a roommate had decided that he needed
rounded corners on his furniture, that his shoes should be lined
up and not thrown in a heap at the bottom of the closet, and the
contents of his pantry labeled until he knew exactly what needed
to be eaten first.
He'd grown
organized. In the old joke the doctor warned against buying green
bananas, and he'd thought to try that on the dry-eyed doctor who
looked through the test results as though seeing them for the
first time, but when the moment came his throat was dry and his
hand sore from twisting his fingers.
"Pancreatic,"
the doctor said when he asked.
"That's a
bad one, isn't it?"
"We have had
some successes, but I'm not going to lie to you"-the doctor had
the look of a man who was about to lie-"for every success story
there are a hundred others not nearly as positive."
At the time
he'd wondered, incongruously, if the man had wanted to follow
a different muse. Maybe he'd wished to be a wordsmith, to bend
the prepositions and comparisons until his face was red and the
crowd was huffing with delight. He was too verbose to be a writer,
so maybe that had driven him back into Nightingale's arms. He
would cure the world, he'd likely thought, although the dream
of being on the radio warning about viruses running rampant hadn't
materialized. Instead, he'd become the type who cautioned about
an impending doom, like a serial killer who wasn't ambitious enough
to do his own killing and had to be satisfied with happenstance.
That diagnosis
and the subsequent speech had led directly to the chemotherapy,
to the endless nausea and pitying looks, and then finally to the
morphine drip and the catheter. The worst was the pain and the
humiliation. He would have been happier not knowing what was happening.
His body weakening day after day, he would plan his meals well
in advance, guessing that he'd be around to enjoy them, instead
of counting vials the nurses dumped into the tube as though that
was his lifeline.
The needle
in his arm itched. That was something that they'd never told him,
and his bowels, never very efficient to begin with, had begun
to shut down as a result of the drugs. He'd complained but the
doctor had merely looked out the window and asked if he needed
him to notify anyone.
The preacher
who came by was a distraction, and he needled him with the soul
he would lose if he didn't try hard enough. "I find myself questioning
the meaning of life more and more," he explained. "I just can't
wrap my head around why a god would go out of his way to worry
about me dying when there are little kids all over the world he
is letting be raped every moment. I think he needs to get his
priorities in order."
"He is working
on every problem in the world," the preacher's pancake syrup voice
assured him. "He sees all need and is answering their prayers."
"Doesn't seem
like he's working very hard. It sounds like you might have picked
the wrong hero, preacher. You even read that book?"
Such exclamations
failed to drive the man away, but his delivery of platitudes became
curt and the dry weeds that were the long hospital days were bleaker
for the mockery he inflicted on the man. Soon he slept as much
as he could. Despite remembering his mother saying that she would
have lots of time to sleep in the grave, he dreamed that he would
merely slip away. Each drip took him closer to where the preacher
crouched beside an open pit, and each whispered instruction was
a wish-list of what he could have done.
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