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Crushing All Hope: Trying to be a Foster Parent for Manitoba Child and Family Services

Table of Contents

Introduction

The Long Germination of the Idea

Tasks Most Difficult

Asking about Adoption - 2015

     Adoption Options - 2015

     UAS Eastern European Adoptions Inc.

     Manitoba Adoptions through Child and Family Services

The Foster Parent System - 2016

Applying to be a Foster Parent - 2016

     The Best Social Worker I Ever Had

     Trying out the Agencies

     Macdonald Youth Services - 2015

     Child and Family Services - 2016

Information Meeting and Orientation - 2016

Meeting Annie Clark - 2016

My Second Orientation - 2016

The Third Orientation - 2016

My Fourth and Final Orientation - 2016

The Year-long Home Study - 2017

     Kim Marcino - 2017

     First Home Study Meeting - April 13

     Second Home Study Meeting - April 18

     Third Home Study Meeting - April 20

     Last Home Study Meeting - September 21

     Forced to be Normal

     Delaying the Home Study

Copy of Kim's Home Study, Annotated - 2017

Licensing

My New Social Worker

     Male Parents

     Delay Tactics

     Fall of 2018

     Meeting with Kim - Dec 4, 2018

     Becoming Suspicious - 2019

Meeting Kathy Furkalo - April 17, 2019

     Their Investigation of Kim - 2019

     Training Session

New Social Worker: Melissa Santos - 2019

     Why I didn't have a Placement

     Television

     Vegetarianism

     Cottage

     Gender as Problem

     Former Foster Kid a Problem?

     Emails from Melissa

Second Meeting with Melissa

I make a FIPPA Request

     Bureaucratic Answer to My FIPPA Request

New Social Worker: Jonathan Siu, Feb 2020

Meeting Patti and Jonathan to See My File - May 22, 2020

     My Parameters Are too Strict

     Why I Don't have a Placement

     Jonathan is Going to Work for Me

     Suggesting Other Agencies

     Respite, Not a Placement

     Confronting Jonathan about Not Working on My File

     Don't I Want to Quit?

     Roadblocks: Cottage

     Roadblocks: Vegetarianism

     Roadblocks: Gender of Child

     Examining My File

     Roadblocks: Gender

     Roadblocks: Television

     They Return to the List

     Transfer of Summary

     Outsourced Training

     Transfer to Another Agency

     Bed Hold

     The Placement List

     Discussion of Winnipeg

A Sudden Flurry of Pretend Placements

The Disappearing Social Worker

Jonathan Home Study Review, Nov 9, 2020

Jonathan Home Study Review - Feb 10, 2021

     Structure of CFS Changes Again

     Reading His Assessments in My Review File

My Last Social Worker: Paige Dubois, 2021

Conclusion

Appendix 1 - The Black Stockings

Appendix 2 - Who is Sheri?

Works Cited

 

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